Janelle Brownis worried about the Brown family’s future.
“We didn’t want us to be what I was pushing us to be all that time,” said Kody, 53. “Now she’s gone, and we’re lamenting it when we didn’t really want to be that.”
“To be honest with you, I really don’t know if I want to do the work,” she said. “It feels like I’m being forced to choose between my children and this group. I don’t feel like my children are welcome.”
Explaining why she felt this way, Janelle said: “Kody’s basically told me they can’t come for Christmas unless they do a big apology. And they’re like, ‘Well, hell no. We’re not gonna do that.'”
Janelle and Kody’s sonsGarrisonand Gabriel have not been on good terms with their father for some time now. This tension stemmed from Kody’s belief that they failed to properly adhere tohis strict COVID-19 rules. However, Janelle revealed that they’re not “the only children who have problems” with Kody.
“There’s a general disgruntlement among my kids,” she said.
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As Kody questioned why he was unaware of these issues until now, Janelle said it’s becausehe’s “hardly been around.”
“You’re not seeing all the input. You just are like, ‘They should respect me.’ There’s a lot more pieces to [that] than just telling them that,” she said. “At the end of the day, I think I’d rather be with my kids.”
Kody said he thinks there needs to be a “resolution” so that they can be a unit again, but Janelle said that “there’s a strong pull to just run away and do the easy thing.”
“I don’t even recognize this family or whatever,” she then said in an interview. “I don’t know. Something has really changed for me.”
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Kody, naturally, got upset upon hearing this becausehe felt “it was some kind of betrayal.”
As they continued to go back and forth, things got heated over the rollout of Kody’s COVID-19 rules. Kody believes Janelle “belittled” him and became increasingly frustrated, leading him to call Janelle’s understanding of his COVID-19 rules a “lie.”
He then stood up and began raising his voice at Janelle.
After trying to defend herself against Kody, Janelle said she didn’t “really want to be here anymore.” But Kody said they have to “figure this out” before suggesting that she doesn’t “give a s—” about what he recently endured with his own COVID-19 battle.
After the group continued to go back and forth over the matter, Meri said: “From experience, the more you just ignore situations and you don’t have conversations and you don’t work on it, the further and further you grow apart.”
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Janelle eventually said she can’t be in the middle of the ongoing tension with the couple’s sons. She then suggested they resolve their issues. In turn, Kody apologized.
“I just think we’ve never had divides this deep,” Janelle told the cameras. “And now, Christine has left and that’s obviously a very, very big departure from what our family has looked like for many years. This is like the ultimate test of our family. Can we hold it together with all of this?”
It was later revealed in the teaser for Sunday’s upcomingSister Wives: One on Onespecialthat Janelle and Kody have “separated.” This makes Janelle the second wife to leave Kody after Christine previouslyannounced the pair’s splitin November 2021.
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source: people.com